What's it like dating a Blogger?05:30
No, let me correct that – I’m single, dating & I’m a blogger.
Some of you may/may not know that this is not my first blog. I used to have an dating blog before which was a funny, sweet, a little cheeky & it was 100% anonymous to protect the not-so-innocent.
It was no 'Secret Diary of a Call Girl' just think of it like this blog but with 'colourful language! I used to write 'how to articles' & sometimes I wrote about my dates......just a passing comment ‘went out for dinner’ or sometimes it was a little bit more!
|Now that's a way to wear underwear! Secret Diary of a Call Girl|
Anyway, I'm back to dating & unlike some people I really enjoy it. I love getting ready for a date, wondering what he'll be like, realizing he's not 5 ft 9" but shorter than me (5 ft 2") or that he’s much more handsome than his picture. Is dating ideal? No, but I’d rather date 50 possible Mr Rights then go out with or be married to Mr Wrong.
|Carrie Bradshaw gets ready to dish the dirt!|
So what's it like dating a blogger & do we reveal everything about the guy’s we’re dating on our blogs?
Well some bloggers do & some don’t. I fall in the ‘don’t’ camp. I believe there should be some privacy between a couple so I don’t believe in bad mouthing people as I wouldn't want it done about me. As in life remember there is always your side of the story, their side of the story & the truth. Yeah, I will admit that if there’s a funny story to be told then I’m there. But otherwise I keep mum.
What is odd though is when I tell men that I’m a blogger they fall into two camps:
a) Men either get paranoid that they are gonna end up all over the blog
b) They want me to write about them
Now, my opinions on both of these things are from one extreme to the other...
a) What or WHO are you hiding from that I can’t mention you?
b) You ain’t that important! LOL
|Carrie & The Politico|
Yes, I do.
Blogging is a very important part of my life & now I'm ‘out’ & blogging PG13 - I won't hide it.
If a man can't handle the fact that he might end up on here then you know what? He's probably up to something shady. Maybe another girlfriend/wife/the taxman or maybe all three?!
What do you think?
Are you a blogger & does your boyfriend/date understand that he might get a blog mention or do you keep mum? Or maybe you think that bloggers should keep their private lives 100%private?
Leave me a comment and let me know!