Who’s dating at the moment?
Step inside for my first date tips.
It’s always a tricky one when asking someone out for a first date.
What do you do?
For me on a first date there is no right & wrong thing to organize - you just need to play it by ear & see what the other person is into.
I personally don’t like to go out for drinks for a first date. There can be a tendency to drink too much plus I think it lacks inventiveness. And don't even get me started on coffee dates. Men have no idea how much 'prep' time still goes into a women getting ready for a coffee date. I have no time to get all MAC'd up for a Cafe Latte & a dry croissant. But what one women/man despises another one might love - know your date.
|Kill me now!|
Men need help??! Yes, sometimes they need a little help. But let me make this clear - I don't want to be the man.
That's his business & he needs to handle it.
These dates combine two great things food/drink & a lot of laughs, so when you see those Groupon/Living Social deals - grab one. These deals are normally valid for a few months & if you don't get a date then take a friend.
|Afternoon Tea with bubbly or Cooking lessons deals|
I'm no feminist but I don't want to hear him trash talking his ex. No real gentleman or in fact real woman would do this. Keep it moving.
|Things are going well...|
He may just be a over sharer. But if you think that he's still in love with her then enjoy your night out but at the end of the date leave it there. You maybe wrong or you can spend the next few months trying to fill her boots. It doesn't matter how fantastic you are, let him get over her first & then he can call you for that second date.
|I do not do Dutch!|
Do you like first dates or does the thought of going out with a complete stranger scare the bejesus out of you?